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Speak Up, Stay Connected: The Power of Self-Advocacy in Friendships
Discover the power of self-advocacy in friendships. Tips for expressing your needs, setting boundaries, and maintaining healthy, supportive relationships.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Nov 183 min read


When Loss Comes Too Early: Navigating Young Adulthood After Losing Someone Your Age
Losing someone your age shatters the quiet belief that we have more time, leaving you face-to-face with a kind of grief no one prepares you for. It forces you to confront how fragile young adulthood really is while navigating shock, heartbreak, and the sudden awareness of your own mortality. This piece explores the weight of losing a peer, the importance of advocating for your health, and the tender work of healing through a loss that came far too soon.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Nov 143 min read


When Your Inner Critic Sounds Like Your Parent
Many of us unknowingly carry the voices of our parents in our inner critic, repeating lessons rooted in survival instead of compassion. This blog explores how that inherited self-talk shapes perfectionism, burnout, and the struggle to rest without guilt. Healing begins when we reparent ourselves—speaking with the gentleness and reassurance we always needed.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Nov 112 min read


Breaking Free From Society's Box and Redefining Success On Your Terms
Feeling stuck chasing society’s version of success? Learn how to redefine it on your own terms with reflection tools and mindset shifts that help you live authentically.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Nov 44 min read


So… What Are We? The Conversation That Could Save You From a Situationship
This blog explores why the “what are we” conversation is essential in the early stages of dating and how avoiding it often leads to situationships. It offers guidance on communicating needs clearly and confidently without fear of “doing too much.” Readers learn that clarity is a form of self-respect — and that asking for it protects emotional peace.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Oct 303 min read


Gaslighting vs. Self-Doubt: How to Tell the Difference in Your Relationship
There's a world of difference between natural, healthy introspection and the sinister psychological manipulation known as gaslighting. While both can make you question your reality, one comes from within, and the other is imposed from without. Knowing the difference is critical for maintaining your mental health and the integrity of your relationship.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Oct 284 min read


What to Do When You Feel Trapped by Other People’s Expectations
Whether it’s your parents’ vision of your career, your partner’s ideal lifestyle, or society’s endless pressure to "have it all," feeling trapped by other people’s expectations is one of the quickest routes to burnout and emotional exhaustion. You don't have to keep carrying that weight. Reclaiming your life and your choices requires a subtle but powerful shift in perspective and the intentional creation of new boundaries.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Oct 215 min read


Am I Gaslighting Myself? How to Trust Your Own Feelings Again
Self-gaslighting is a quiet, insidious form of self-sabotage that can erode your self-trust, leaving you feeling perpetually confused and disconnected from your authentic self.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 234 min read


Therapy vs. TikTok Advice: How to Tell the Difference
Social media can make mental health feel accessible, but it’s often surface-level. Therapy provides nuance, personalized guidance, and integration that one-minute videos cannot. Learning to differentiate helpful content from misleading advice is key to protecting your mental health.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Sep 92 min read


5 Ways to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty
Do you ever find yourself automatically saying “yes” to something you have no interest in doing? While it might feel safe in the moment—a way to avoid disappointing others—it often leaves us feeling drained, resentful, and utterly disconnected from our own desires.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 94 min read


Navigating Career Choices and Finding Life Balance
Career decisions can feel overwhelming at any stage in life. Whether someone is starting a new professional path, considering a career change, or seeking more satisfaction in their current work, uncertainty about next steps is common.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 22 min read


The Weight of Being the First: First-Gen Pressure and Silent Struggles
Being the first in your family or community to accomplish something is both empowering and exhausting. It comes with invisible pressures, expectations, and grief that deserve acknowledgment. Healing means giving yourself permission to release guilt, set boundaries, and celebrate your humanity beyond achievement.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Aug 272 min read


Navigating the Storm: Finding Balance and Understanding in Today's Political Climate
In our current world, torn apart by intense political division, many are feeling anxious and stressed. With a balanced approach, we can foster understanding and enhance our well-being.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Aug 224 min read


Get Ready for Fall, Y'all!
As we move from the warmth of summer to the crispness of fall, excitement and anxiety can often swirl together. A few simple strategies can help clear your mind and set you up for success this season.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Aug 204 min read


Why Women Carry So Much: The Unseen Burden of Being Everyone’s Emotional Support System
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything —holding it all together while everyone else gets to breathe easy—you’re not alone....

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Aug 184 min read


Navigating Love in a Swipe Culture: How to Date With an Anxious Attachment Style in the Millennial and Gen Z Era
Dating with an anxious attachment style in today’s fast-paced, swipe-based world can feel overwhelming and exhausting. This blog dives into the unique struggles millennials and Gen Z face in relationships, offering practical strategies to navigate love with self-awareness, healthy boundaries, and self-compassion. It’s time to break free from the anxiety that comes with seeking validation and embrace relationships that feel secure and fulfilling.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Jul 283 min read


Grieving the Friendships That Faded
Sometimes the end of a friendship hurts just as deeply as a breakup. But because society doesn’t always recognize that grief, we carry it silently. You’re allowed to mourn what you thought you’d have forever.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Jun 301 min read


Lessons in Love and Drama: What Love Island Teaches Us About Relationships
Reality TV often glamorizes love, showing picture-perfect moments that blur the line between fantasy and reality. While the show entertains, it also highlights what not to do in relationships.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Jun 243 min read


You’re Not Lazy — You’re Tired, Overwhelmed, and Human
Many of us were raised to believe that resting means we’re lazy or falling behind. This belief can make it nearly impossible to let our bodies and minds relax without feeling anxious. This blog invites you to unpack that guilt and learn tiny ways to rest that feel safe and healing.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Jun 202 min read


Hot Girl Healing > Hot Girl Summer
In today’s world, social media often promotes images of perfect bodies, making it easy to feel pressured to look a certain way. However, instead of targeting a fleeting summer appearance, maybe it’s time to shift the focus toward something much deeper: "Hot Girl Healing" rather than "Hot Girl Summer.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Jun 174 min read
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