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Creating Space for Both Voices: Building Mutual Respect in Your Relationship
Build stronger relationships through mutual respect. Learn strategies for listening, advocating for yourself, and ensuring both partners feel heard.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
5 days ago3 min read


Rediscovering Yourself After a Long-Term Relationship Ends
Ending a long-term relationship can leave you questioning your identity and grieving the loss of shared routines and connection. Rediscovering yourself involves allowing space to feel your emotions, reconnecting with your passions and friendships, and setting intentional goals for your future. This process of self-reflection and growth can help you emerge stronger, more self-aware, and ready to engage in life and relationships authentically.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Nov 212 min read


Healthy Boundaries = Healthy Love: A Guide for Couples
Learn how healthy boundaries strengthen love and improve communication in relationships. Practical tips for couples to set limits, reduce conflict, and deepen connection.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Nov 114 min read


Love the Person in Front of You, Not Their Potential
This piece explores the emotional trap of falling in love with someone’s potential rather than their reality. It challenges readers to stop romanticizing growth that hasn’t happened and to embrace love that exists in the present, not in fantasy. True intimacy begins when you choose connection over convincing—and let love meet you where you are.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Nov 72 min read


So… What Are We? The Conversation That Could Save You From a Situationship
This blog explores why the “what are we” conversation is essential in the early stages of dating and how avoiding it often leads to situationships. It offers guidance on communicating needs clearly and confidently without fear of “doing too much.” Readers learn that clarity is a form of self-respect — and that asking for it protects emotional peace.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Oct 303 min read


Gaslighting vs. Self-Doubt: How to Tell the Difference in Your Relationship
There's a world of difference between natural, healthy introspection and the sinister psychological manipulation known as gaslighting. While both can make you question your reality, one comes from within, and the other is imposed from without. Knowing the difference is critical for maintaining your mental health and the integrity of your relationship.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Oct 284 min read


Are You People-Pleasing Your Partner? Signs It’s Hurting Intimacy
People-pleasing isn’t just about being nice; it’s a deeper pattern where your own needs, desires, and even opinions get consistently suppressed in favor of someone else's. And while it might seem like a shortcut to avoiding conflict, in a romantic relationship, it's often a slow poison to genuine connection.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Oct 144 min read


Bringing Up Couples Therapy Without the Drama
Bringing up couples therapy can feel daunting, but framing it as a shared investment in your relationship makes it more approachable. This blog covers practical strategies for inviting your partner to therapy while honoring cultural backgrounds, trauma histories, and individual hesitations. Learn how therapy can support communication, emotional regulation, and connection, while recognizing it’s not a magic fix for every relationship challenge.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Oct 12 min read


How to Speak Up in Your Relationship Without Starting a Fight
Many people avoid speaking their truth in a relationship because they equate honest communication with conflict. We often think of difficult conversations as battles to be won or lost, rather than opportunities for deeper connection. A healthy relationship isn't one without disagreements; it's one where partners feel safe enough to voice their needs and concerns, knowing they can navigate conflict constructively.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 303 min read


When Keeping the Peace Hurts Your Relationship: Why Self-Advocacy Matters
Conflict is uncomfortable. It can feel like a threat to the stability of the relationship. The truth is, a relationship without conflict isn't necessarily a healthy one.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 164 min read


Healing After Situationships: Naming What Was Real, Even When It Wasn’t Defined
Situationships can leave deep wounds even without official titles. The grief is valid, the love was real, and healing means naming your experience without shame while choosing not to settle for half-hearted connections in the future.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Sep 32 min read


What to Expect in Your First Couples Therapy Sessions
Starting couples therapy can feel overwhelming. Understanding what happens in the first few sessions can ease anxiety and help both partners feel more prepared.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Aug 262 min read


Finding Peace After a Breakup Without Closure: How to Heal When You Don't Get the Answers You Need
Healing after a breakup without closure can be incredibly challenging, especially when you’re left with unanswered questions and lingering emotions. By accepting what you can't control, reflecting on what you've learned, and focusing on your personal growth, you can create your own sense of closure. Embracing self-compassion and letting go of the need for answers allows you to reclaim peace and move forward with a stronger sense of self.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Aug 43 min read


Navigating Love in a Swipe Culture: How to Date With an Anxious Attachment Style in the Millennial and Gen Z Era
Dating with an anxious attachment style in today’s fast-paced, swipe-based world can feel overwhelming and exhausting. This blog dives into the unique struggles millennials and Gen Z face in relationships, offering practical strategies to navigate love with self-awareness, healthy boundaries, and self-compassion. It’s time to break free from the anxiety that comes with seeking validation and embrace relationships that feel secure and fulfilling.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Jul 283 min read


Too Much for Who? Dating While Black, Educated, and Self-Assured
Many Black women are told they’re “too much” when they show up fully educated, self-sufficient, and emotionally honest. This blog explores the complex dating dynamics successful Black women face and reminds us that our fullness is not a flaw. If you’ve ever felt like you had to shrink to be loved, this is for you.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Jul 142 min read


Lessons in Love and Drama: What Love Island Teaches Us About Relationships
Reality TV often glamorizes love, showing picture-perfect moments that blur the line between fantasy and reality. While the show entertains, it also highlights what not to do in relationships.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Jun 243 min read


The Digital Age: What is the Best Way to Communicate with Your Partner?
In today's fast-paced world, the way we talk to our partners has changed a lot. With so many options available—like texting, phone calls, video chats, and face-to-face talks—it's crucial to figure out the best way to communicate.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
May 154 min read


Let's Talk About Sex, Baby
Talking openly and honestly with your partner is crucial for building intimacy and ensuring satisfaction in your relationship.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Apr 293 min read


They Cheated, Now What? How Young Adults Can Overcome Shame and Rebuild After Infidelity
Supporting young adults who are working through experiences of infidelity.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Apr 174 min read


Confronting Anxieties: Overcoming Fear of Abandonment & Navigating Tough Conversations in Romantic Relationships
A brief guide to confronting anxiety, healing abandonment wounds, and navigating difficult conversations in romantic relationships.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Apr 174 min read
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