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Navigating Career Choices and Finding Life Balance

  • Writer: Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
    Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
  • Sep 2
  • 2 min read

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Career decisions can feel overwhelming at any stage in life. Whether someone is starting a new professional path, considering a career change, or seeking more satisfaction in their current work, uncertainty about next steps is common. Therapy provides a space to reflect on personal values, priorities, and the role work plays in your life, helping to approach these decisions with clarity and confidence.


Understanding What Matters Most


One of the first steps in exploring career options is identifying what matters most to you. Adults often have different priorities when it comes to work:


  • Some prioritize income and financial stability.

  • Others seek fulfillment, meaning, or flexibility in their roles.

  • Many people balance multiple factors, such as work-life balance, family responsibilities, personal growth, and enjoyment.


It’s also normal for these priorities to shift over time. Therapy can help you process these shifts and explore what aligns with your current needs and values, reducing pressure and self-judgment in the process.


Tools and Exercises to Support Career Reflection


Even though therapy is not the same as career coaching, there are strategies that can support self-reflection and informed decision-making:


  1. Values Clarification

    • Reflecting on what is most important—autonomy, creativity, stability, helping others, or growth—can guide your choices and highlight potential conflicts between roles and personal values.

  2. Pros and Cons Exploration

    • Listing potential benefits and drawbacks of different options, such as salary, stress level, flexibility, or fulfillment, can help organize your thoughts and make decisions feel more manageable.

  3. Future Self Visualization

    • Imagining a typical day in a potential job or career path can reveal what feels energizing versus draining. Journaling these reflections can highlight patterns and preferences.

  4. Mindfulness and Reflection Practices

    • Practices like journaling, meditation, or structured reflection exercises can help reduce anxiety about uncertainty and clarify which options resonate most with you.

  5. Cognitive Reframing

    • Reframing worries or perceived setbacks as opportunities for learning and growth can make career exploration feel less intimidating and more empowering.

  6. Motivational Reflection

    • Exploring intrinsic motivations—why you are drawn to certain roles or lifestyles—can help reconcile competing priorities and increase clarity in decision-making.


Recognizing the Multiple Roles of Work


Work serves different functions in our lives. Some people work primarily for financial stability, others for fulfillment or structure, and many navigate a combination of both. Life circumstances—such as caregiving, health, or personal goals—can influence what balance feels sustainable or desirable. Therapy provides a space to explore these complexities without judgment, helping you make choices that reflect your values, needs, and long-term wellbeing.


Moving Forward With Support


Career exploration is rarely linear. It often involves ongoing reflection, experimentation, and adjustment. Through therapy, you can gain insight into what matters most to you, explore realistic options, and manage the emotions that arise in the process.


If you’re feeling uncertain about your career direction or want support reflecting on your priorities and goals, I’m here to help. Therapy can provide a space to explore these questions alongside other life transitions. You can reach out to me at natalie@smarttalktherapy.com to start a conversation about how therapy can help you gain clarity, balance, and confidence as you consider your next steps.



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