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Stop Trying to Fix It: Learning to Sit With Your Feelings
This blog explores the importance of sitting with your feelings rather than avoiding or fixing them. It offers practical ways to stay present through discomfort, build emotional endurance, and strengthen self-trust. Readers will learn that healing begins not by rushing through emotions but by allowing themselves to feel them fully.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Oct 23, 20253 min read


What to Do When You Feel Trapped by Other People’s Expectations
Whether it’s your parents’ vision of your career, your partner’s ideal lifestyle, or society’s endless pressure to "have it all," feeling trapped by other people’s expectations is one of the quickest routes to burnout and emotional exhaustion. You don't have to keep carrying that weight. Reclaiming your life and your choices requires a subtle but powerful shift in perspective and the intentional creation of new boundaries.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Oct 21, 20255 min read


Are You People-Pleasing Your Partner? Signs It’s Hurting Intimacy
People-pleasing isn’t just about being nice; it’s a deeper pattern where your own needs, desires, and even opinions get consistently suppressed in favor of someone else's. And while it might seem like a shortcut to avoiding conflict, in a romantic relationship, it's often a slow poison to genuine connection.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Oct 14, 20254 min read


Can't Sleep Because of Anxiety? 7 Tools to Quiet Your Racing Mind
The connection between a racing mind and a restless night is a cruel loop. Anxiety keeps you awake, and lack of sleep makes your anxiety worse the next day. But you don't have to be a helpless passenger in this cycle.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Oct 7, 20255 min read


Bringing Up Couples Therapy Without the Drama
Bringing up couples therapy can feel daunting, but framing it as a shared investment in your relationship makes it more approachable. This blog covers practical strategies for inviting your partner to therapy while honoring cultural backgrounds, trauma histories, and individual hesitations. Learn how therapy can support communication, emotional regulation, and connection, while recognizing it’s not a magic fix for every relationship challenge.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Oct 1, 20252 min read


How to Speak Up in Your Relationship Without Starting a Fight
Many people avoid speaking their truth in a relationship because they equate honest communication with conflict. We often think of difficult conversations as battles to be won or lost, rather than opportunities for deeper connection. A healthy relationship isn't one without disagreements; it's one where partners feel safe enough to voice their needs and concerns, knowing they can navigate conflict constructively.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 30, 20253 min read


Getting to Know Your Inner Family: Exploring IFS and Parts Work
IFS is a therapy approach that helps you understand the “inner family” of parts in your mind. This blog explores how parts work can reveal patterns like the inner critic, self-sabotage, and behaviors shaped by past experiences. Learn how connecting with your inner family can foster self-compassion, emotional balance, and healthier relationships.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Sep 24, 20252 min read


Am I Gaslighting Myself? How to Trust Your Own Feelings Again
Self-gaslighting is a quiet, insidious form of self-sabotage that can erode your self-trust, leaving you feeling perpetually confused and disconnected from your authentic self.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 23, 20254 min read


The Therapy Journey Isn’t Linear: Why Progress Sometimes Feels Messy
Healing is rarely a straight line—it’s a spiral full of setbacks and breakthroughs. Therapy helps you build tools, awareness, and self-compassion to navigate life’s challenges. Recognizing that progress looks different for everyone can reduce frustration and increase resilience.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Sep 16, 20252 min read


When Keeping the Peace Hurts Your Relationship: Why Self-Advocacy Matters
Conflict is uncomfortable. It can feel like a threat to the stability of the relationship. The truth is, a relationship without conflict isn't necessarily a healthy one.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 16, 20254 min read


Therapy vs. TikTok Advice: How to Tell the Difference
Social media can make mental health feel accessible, but it’s often surface-level. Therapy provides nuance, personalized guidance, and integration that one-minute videos cannot. Learning to differentiate helpful content from misleading advice is key to protecting your mental health.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Sep 9, 20252 min read


5 Ways to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty
Do you ever find yourself automatically saying “yes” to something you have no interest in doing? While it might feel safe in the moment—a way to avoid disappointing others—it often leaves us feeling drained, resentful, and utterly disconnected from our own desires.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 9, 20254 min read


Healing After Situationships: Naming What Was Real, Even When It Wasn’t Defined
Situationships can leave deep wounds even without official titles. The grief is valid, the love was real, and healing means naming your experience without shame while choosing not to settle for half-hearted connections in the future.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Sep 3, 20252 min read


Navigating Career Choices and Finding Life Balance
Career decisions can feel overwhelming at any stage in life. Whether someone is starting a new professional path, considering a career change, or seeking more satisfaction in their current work, uncertainty about next steps is common.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Sep 2, 20252 min read


Who Am I Now? Rediscovering Yourself Beyond Motherhood
You love your kids—but somewhere along the way, you may have lost touch with yourself. If you’ve ever wondered, Who am I now?, you’re not alone. Motherhood transforms us, but it shouldn’t erase us. This blog explores how to reconnect with the woman you are beyond being a mom—with compassion, curiosity, and a reminder: you still matter. Read more about rediscovering your identity after motherhood.

Linda Meier Abdelsayed, LMFT
Aug 28, 20253 min read


The Weight of Being the First: First-Gen Pressure and Silent Struggles
Being the first in your family or community to accomplish something is both empowering and exhausting. It comes with invisible pressures, expectations, and grief that deserve acknowledgment. Healing means giving yourself permission to release guilt, set boundaries, and celebrate your humanity beyond achievement.

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Aug 27, 20252 min read


What to Expect in Your First Couples Therapy Sessions
Starting couples therapy can feel overwhelming. Understanding what happens in the first few sessions can ease anxiety and help both partners feel more prepared.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Aug 26, 20252 min read


Navigating the Storm: Finding Balance and Understanding in Today's Political Climate
In our current world, torn apart by intense political division, many are feeling anxious and stressed. With a balanced approach, we can foster understanding and enhance our well-being.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Aug 22, 20254 min read


Get Ready for Fall, Y'all!
As we move from the warmth of summer to the crispness of fall, excitement and anxiety can often swirl together. A few simple strategies can help clear your mind and set you up for success this season.

Natalie Herriott, AMFT, APCC
Aug 20, 20254 min read


Why Women Carry So Much: The Unseen Burden of Being Everyone’s Emotional Support System
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything —holding it all together while everyone else gets to breathe easy—you’re not alone....

Brittney Austin, AMFT
Aug 18, 20254 min read
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